Where do You Fit in

by

irgin iews

VE

irginia

Shiela in her open letter to me at the end of her book review in this issue, uses the term "whole girl fetishist" (WGF) and we quite agree on the definition. In my own "Observations" column just preceeding this I have defined "FP" for newer readers. I would like in this editorial to point out another way of distinguishing these two classes

of persons and, hopefully, by doing so to bring about some changes in some of these whom the "shoe fits" (even if it is an 8 inch spike).

Some among us have made their peace with their "Girl Within" and have learned to accept her existence and to share their lives with her. If she is real and not pretend these persons would probably be classed as FP lovers of the feminine. However, there is much much more to being feminine than just slipping on a dress and heels and wearing earrings. Any WGF (whole girl fetishist) can and does do this plus the lingerie, hairdo, makeup, etc. The GGs that you know and respect and presumably try to emulate (if you really qualify as an FP) manifest themselves in a myriad of ways other than just wearing femmeattire. They are (or should be) more gentle, graceful, compassionate, considerate, helpful, thoughtful. sensitive, emotional, and long suffering at the hands of men. In our

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